Things We’ve Finally Made Peace With | The Sista Edit
The Woman Who Does Everything Is Tired. She runs the business. Manages the household. Remembers the birthdays, buys the groceries, books the appointments and somehow knows where everyone left their bloody keys.
She’s the family CEO, social secretary, crisis manager and unofficial Minister of Absolutely Everything.
And when someone asks what she's doing this weekend?
“Oh, nothing much."
SISTA. ARE YOU KIDDING ME?
CAN SOMEONE PLEASE BUY THIS WOMAN A COCKTAIL?
Preferably a double. With that nice little umbrella. Maybe an olive or something, and absolutely no questions about what’s for dinner.
The 47 Tabs Open in Our Heads.
It’s not always the doing that's exhausting.
- It’s the remembering, planning, anticipating, organising and reminding everyone else to do their doing.
- It’s remembering to buy toilet paper while presenting a marketing strategy.
- It's waking up at 3am because you've suddenly remembered something you forgot three Thursdays ago.
- It’s being the person who knows where everything is, what everyone needs and what happens next.
Sometimes we don’t need another productivity app.
We need someone else to remember the milk. Without being asked.
And while they're at it, they can buy us a cocktail.
We've Finally Made Peace With Not Being Superwoman.
Remember when we thought having it all meant doing it all?
A successful career. A beautiful home. Happy children. A fabulous social life. Perfect hair.
And apparently we're supposed to exercise, meditate, drink two litres of water, get eight hours of sleep and eat enough protein.
WHEN, EXACTLY?
Somewhere along the way, we confused being capable with being responsible for absolutely everything.
Well, Sista, here's a thought.
Just because you CAN do everything doesn't mean you SHOULD have to.
We've finally made peace with saying no.
- With buying the cake instead of baking it.
- With wearing comfortable shoes.
- With taking an afternoon off without feeling guilty.
And with the fact that life is far too short to iron.
Less Fuss. More Fabulous.
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Because, Sista, we already have enough to think about. Our clothes don't need to be one of them.
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No wardrobe meltdowns. No complicated styling. And definitely no unnecessary ironing.
Less time fussing. More time living.
And maybe even time for that cocktail.
Here's to the Women Who Hold Everything Together.
- The women who show up.
- Who make plans.
- Who remember the details.
- Who quietly carry more than most people realise.
- The women who are strong and exhausted. Confident and overwhelmed. Fabulous and completely fed up.
Sometimes all on the same Tuesday.
We see you, Sista. We ARE you.
And perhaps it's time we stopped waiting until everything is done before doing something for ourselves.
Because everything is NEVER done.
So wear the dress. Book the lunch. Take the weekend away.
Leave the ironing. And for heaven's sake, stop saving the good perfume for special occasions.
YOU are the occasion.
And if anyone asks what you'd like for all your hard work, tell them:
"I'd like someone to buy me a blêrrie cocktail. Without asking me to organise it." 🍸
Less Fuss. More Fabulous. More Living.
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Until next time, Sista. Wear what you love. Live how you like. And make a little mischief.
LotsOfLove, SL 💜
P.S. Sista, when was the last time someone bought YOU a cocktail without expecting you to arrange the outing?
We're listening. 🍸